Every Trigger Is a Messenger

Trigger

Recently, someone left a comment on one of our posts about the upcoming Radical Remission 2-Week Workshop that Jenny and I are running next month.

They said:

“People with cancer need proper medical treatment — not workshops run by people trying to make money from their situation.”

At first, I felt that familiar tightening in my chest — the impulse to defend what I know to be true. But instead of reacting, I paused and asked myself:

What unhealed wound within me has this touched?

And then I realised — the trigger wasn’t about being questioned as a healer. It was the ache of watching, time and time again, how many people have been failed by a system that rarely looks beyond the physical body.

The grief of seeing beautiful souls do everything “right” medically and still not heal — because no one ever helped them address the unresolved stress, suppressed emotions, trauma, poor food choices, and toxicity driving disease.

We know healing is possible when the emotional body is included, and it’s painful to watch others dismiss that truth because the conditioning says authority lies outside us.

When someone questions your legitimacy, it echoes that old programming that healing has to come from “approved” systems — and not from within.

So I responded gently:

That while medical care is important and often needed, true healing also involves releasing the emotional and energetic imprints that keep the body in fight-or-flight.

Our workshops don’t replace medicine — they empower people to work with their body, not against it.

Once I sat with that, the trigger softened. Because I realised it wasn’t anger — it was heartbreak. And that heartbreak is what keeps Jenny and myself doing this work.

Every trigger is a messenger.

It’s not the enemy — it’s an unhealed wound asking to be heard. When we meet it with compassion instead of defence, it transforms into purpose.

Healing Starts in the Subconscious

So much of our programming begins long before we ever fall ill. From a young age, we’re taught to look outside ourselves for validation, answers, and healing — to trust systems, experts, and authorities more than our own intuition.

Over time, this creates deep subconscious beliefs like:

“Someone else knows what’s best for me.”

“Healing is something done to me, not by me.”

“I can’t trust my body.”

These beliefs run automatically in the background — shaping our thoughts, behaviours, and even our biology.

Thankfully, the truth: the subconscious mind can be reprogrammed.

When we consciously shift our thoughts, habits, and emotional patterns, the body begins to respond.

💫 Fear softens into trust.
💫 Overwhelm turns into clarity.
💫 Anxiety transforms into peace.

And the body’s inner pharmacy — those incredible healing chemicals and regenerative pathways — begin to activate.

Healing isn’t about rejecting medicine; it’s about remembering our power.

When we change our inner world, our outer reality follows.

 

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I’m Justine Laidlaw – Colon Cancer Survivor, Integrative Cancer Coach, Life Coach, Dr. Kelly Turners RADICAL REMISSION workshop facilitator and Thermography Breast Screening technician (Godfrey Integrative Medical Clinic) based in the beautiful Bay of Plenty town of Tauranga in New Zealand. Read More

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